8 Reasons to Avoid Sex
"What does it mean to abstain from sex and why do people abstain from sex? Psychiatrist/Psychotherapist Assistant Prof. Dr. Rıdvan Üney gave information about the reasons for abstaining from sex."
Sexuality is one of the most talked about and one of the most feared topics. In fact, it is an indispensable and natural area of life. From the moment we are born, we are defined as boys and girls according to our sexual situation.
With adolescence, our physical appearance and sexual desires emerge. Sex becomes indispensable for the rest of life. However, sexual withdrawal often remains a problem.
Reasons for sexual withdrawal
1- If the information about sexuality that the person receives from the environment is insufficient, he will continue to be shy in his relationship.
2- Information about excessively exaggerated sexuality heard from the environment. In conversations about sex, people often tend to exaggerate what's going on.
3- Difficulty in accessing information about healthy sexuality, lack of information from information sources such as friends and family.
4- It is difficult to ask questions due to the privacy of the sexual sphere.
5- Even if the spouses are together for a long time, they hesitate to ask questions about sexuality, thinking that the other party will misunderstand.
6- People who have self-confidence problems will naturally experience this problem in the sexual sphere and be hesitant.
7- They shyly stay away because of the fear of being funny and being seen as ignorant.
8- Although sexual problems are no different from other health problems; Although people endure the problem, they find it difficult to get help.
The disappearance of shyness in sexuality and people acting more confidently; it is only possible by having accurate and real information and being able to talk more openly with his partner.